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Believe it or not - I did that, no problem there. Short term that 's all fine and dandy, long term that 's a whole other story. Problem is most women are shallow, boring and extremely allergic to honest answers (generalization). Feelings >> facts + logic(stereotypical). Yes I 've also met 2-3 women who did value the no BS approach (what is the no BS aproach?), typically the type that played and interacted much with boys at a young age(cant see a relation). One of them (in her earlý-mid 20s) even asked for my advice (before contacting anyone else) when she wound up unexpectedly pregnant. After I gave her the facts as I saw them at the time (I didn't say do this or that - not my place, as I wasn't the father), I "send her off" to one of her grandmothers, the only female in her family and friendcircle I trusted somewhat to keep a level head and not start searching for baby names right away (stereotypical). As a male I'm somewhat limited when it comes to pregnancy and babies (stereotypical/generalization).
And your idea that men and women are equal is pure nonsense (yeah i know what sexual dimorphism is but biology is only a small part of our society (see simple answers for complex questions), i didnt even start on my idea of equality btw). Our physique is different, our brains are structured differently, our interests and talents are different (overall)(yeah but ours are probably too and we are both males ). But no - like good little communists, if we repeat nonsense long enough, it must become true - and in a pinch we use a hammer to form the world to our liking (are you trying to impy anything here?).
Not sure if you are old enough (I was in my teens at that time)(am now in my mid 30s so at the german unification i was a little shit), but in the early and mid '90s east german woman were somewhat of a sought after commodity on the west german dating market (thai woman principle of old west german guys who think they have to find a "weaker" mate. nothing new always happened and wil continue, see impact of china 1 child politics), that ofc has tapered off a long while ago. While there were certainly enough gold diggers among them, overall they were less materialistic, better educated and more emancipated (in the true meaning off the word, not todays travesty(in the way YOU understand it i assume)) than west german women - beside they had much less hangups when it came to their bodies (can't forget that one). But with east german woman it went the same way as with the GDR as whole - assimilated and integrated (GG Art 23), not much "unification" (GG Art 146) there.
So you are a German male from the former GDR in your 40s and in your defining years your known political system broke down, the world changed for us all forever and at the same time you, unfortunately, didnt find a girlfriend and blame that on the exodus to west germany? (of course that is not the whole truth)
your comment is chock full of generalizations, clichees, stereotypical assumptions and dont let me even start on the Grundgesetz paragraphs, two most conspiracy theorists like to pull up. the only thing thats missing here is that you are an AfD voter.
im really sorry that you didnt find someone and now try to sort that out with (imho) falsely applied reason and logick ( thats what men do after all) but my oppinion stands: you wont find answers this way. you are only soothing yourself into false security.
I cant tell you waht to belive but oyu might want to learn some research methods to check the things you consume online.
Hell i might write a paper about mgtow/redpill/pu in relation to the german unification.
What kind of nonsense are you writing there - as long as we don't speak about individual(s) cases, when looking at large groups, you can't avoid generalizations. Ofc there are in group differences, but general trends still remain true. And only because something is a stereotype doesn't make it false.
In the early - mid 90s I was in my teens (school), but I sure as hell wasn't chasing after grown woman - how the fuck do you come up with that after reading my earlier statement? Yes I was an early developer with slightly above average intelligence for my age bracket, but that sure as hell didn't enable me nor was I interested in to go after woman. I could fool avg (intelligent) girls that were 2 years older than me, but come on ... . Being a teenager doesn't equate to being blind to the world around you, at least not in all cases and all the time.
Only because I know of these GG Artikel(s) and the options that were available in 1990, that makes me a Alex Jones fan or Reichsbürger - you 've got to be kidding me. That is the typical nonsense spouted in MM and by so called intellectuals + politicans that parade around in politic talk shows on TV. I knew of these artikels as a schoolboy, much to the chagrin of my
Staatbürgerkundeaka Sozialkundelehrerin (and the entertainment of my classmates), who couldn't stop shouting "Sieg Heil Helmut!" after chearing for Ulbricht and Honecker in the first 45 years of her life. Hell - when I was 12 I interrupted my 7th grade german teacher (50+ years old) in a monologe about how bad the Nazis were, by asking him loud and clear what he did in east germany ... well there was a sudden silence in class for several seconds, after which a red faced teacher muttered some vague threads into my direction concerning my behavior ... pointless to put it mildly.
I 've never voted CDU (wrong leadership, not sure who was worse: Kohl, Stoiber or Merkel), AfD or a radical right wing party. Sadly we don't have a libertarian party - don't start with the FDP - and the SPD after Schröder is trying to overtake DIE Linke und Grünen on the left side, all them happily abandon civil rights and extending the "police state", while the media is chearing them on or at least tolerates it.
And while the AfD provides a fresh new wind and entertainment, they have too many REAL right wing morons in their line up. Just being vehemently opposed to uncontrolled mass imigration and a EU superstate doesn't make you a Nazi, despite the lefts constant effort to redefine the terms to make them best fit their current agenda. Though on the ofter hand that alone doesn't make you a party in my book. Maybe in 10 years they manage to sort themselfs out, take the CDUs place after great chair
manwomen Merkel units CDU and SPD under her leadership ;-).
And before you write any paper, I highly advise you to check mens rights activists and their grievances first and how they apply to germany ( paying for other mens children under certain circumstances afaik - state sanctioned "cuckoldry"). The "only" difference between those groups (MRA, RedPill, MGTOW and with PU you mean PUAs i assume) are the consequences they draw from the current situation. Though I'm not sure what PUAs - man sluts with an unhealthy urge to brag in my book - have to do with the other 3 groups.
And concerning "scientific research" especially in so called "soft sciences"