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Why do you want money for being trans? Pay for your own surgery. I can understand wanting to be the other gender but don't try to get sympathy for being trans and "oh the shirts don't fit ;~;". I've dealt with a fair share of trans in the army and I don't care what gender they are or what gender they want to be. None of them go around complaining about it or make a gofundme so they can get other people to pay for it. If they really wanted to be another gender then they'd work for it themselves. You may seem nice and all on the outside but what I see is someone wanting attention. Everyone has problems but they don't go around making a patreon or some crap saying "please give me 1000 dollars so I feel better about myself because I can't be bothered to do it myself". You don't seem that bad off. You want it you should work for it.

 

 

The entire page is a sob story. Drug addicts don't need help from others. If they want to be clean they actually have to do it. Rehab can't do anything it seems. People relapse so easily. Just like people in world of tanks. If they want to be good they can go and watch a replay and all but in the end they actually need to fight and think for themselves. I have no complaints with someone wanting to be the opposite gender even though my personal thoughts tell me otherwise. But all I'M saying is that he should actually work towards it and not rely on others to do it. I'll make a gofundme account because I can't spend 24/7 using my money to buy warhammer 40k armies so I'll make one "Donate to Laceylace because life is hard and I need others to do what I want for me". That's not a way to do things. The fact that the entire page is just an enormous sob story is the thing that made me angry. 

 

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People wouldn't switch gender for convenience... There must be a reason: psychological, embrional, ... There are elements pointing towards an objective medical cause... In other words: transgender people aren't making their story up & deserve a fitting medical treatment. It's good that the community can provide a (partial) reimbursement.

As for most un-explained conditions there are non-believers, that's their right and I respect that.

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Yep, the wee bastards will do that. Animals are very destructive to vehicles. If you don't want visitors, use peppermint oil on your wheel wells and venting. A lot more pleasant then using animal pee. Just don't get any on your hands. And for the love of god and all that's holy, do NOT store animal food near your car. There's nothing better then having two pounds of fish flavored cat food rotting in your vents. Also all insurances should cover fuzzy wuzzy damage. 

Speaking of fuzzy wuzzy's.

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Hey guys.  I'm still here, I'm sorry I've been away for a while.  Things have been going, lost half my funding for my surgery.  Working on finding another source.  It's been an interesting ride.

 

Here's this though.

 

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Hey guys.  I'm still here, I'm sorry I've been away for a while.  Things have been going, lost half my funding for my surgery.  Working on finding another source.  It's been an interesting ride.

 

Here's this though.

 

Oh no.  Your parents didn't pull their support, did they?  I hope you can get that money back, and quickly.

Also, cute vid.  10/10 would clap for Avengers.

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Oh no.  Your parents didn't pull their support, did they?  I hope you can get that money back, and quickly.

Also, cute vid.  10/10 would clap for Avengers.

No, not my parents.  Family issues on the other side have made getting the rest of the funding impossible - from that aspect anyway.  Money that *is* ours is locked to us for the next few years due to someones spite and insanity.

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Transgender is totally a recent thing

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Couple of problems:

1) Trying to correlate those activities into anything resembling modern definitions is a stretch at best with the information available.

 2) Not as old as civilization, civilization was a couple thousand years old by that period.

3) Ancient Native Americans are a better source for this kind of stuff, since they have explicit transgender roles in certain tribes that date back to well before Columbus showed up.  

4) One of the most common things found in pre-civilization settlements/caves is dildos. Not really related, but there are a lot of stone dildos out there, some are worryingly large too.

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Couple of problems:

1) Trying to correlate those activities into anything resembling modern definitions is a stretch at best with the information available.

 2) Not as old as civilization, civilization was a couple thousand years old by that period.

3) Ancient Native Americans are a better source for this kind of stuff, since they have explicit transgender roles in certain tribes that date back to well before Columbus showed up.  

4) One of the most common things found in pre-civilization settlements/caves is dildos. Not really related, but there are a lot of stone dildos out there, some are worryingly large too.

Jesus you guys see dildos in every phallus shaped object.

Also I agree with your 1st point, and think it's important.

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Jesus you guys see dildos in every phallus shaped object.

5-7 inches in length typically, unusually smooth, some are carved to very much be in a more well-defined shape of a penis (including foreskin and the head in more "elaborate" ones). Layered from multiple stones, or leather, even wood at times. Lots of excavations don't even bother cataloging them because it's embarrassing at times by volume or because they are sheepish. This isn't including all the penis shaped icons in general, just dildos.      

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No, not my parents.  Family issues on the other side have made getting the rest of the funding impossible - from that aspect anyway.  Money that *is* ours is locked to us for the next few years due to someones spite and insanity.

BOOOO! 

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So things have been pretty quiet lately, it looks like. Good news on my end, I have a full time job, I'm going on a date tonight, my parents are still splitting up but keeping me out of it, so I only talk to them about things every few days. For now, things seem to be stable.

And this girl I'm going out with tonight identifies as gender fluid but doesn't really talk about it to a whole lot of people, as she's quite shy about sharing anything.

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Quick little update before I talk with my sister tomorrow.  I've changed directions on where I'm going to get the surgery I need.  I'll be headed to Thailand afterall!  I'm looking forward to it, not only because it's a place I've never been but because the surgeon I've looked into most for now uses a technique he pioneered.  Dr Suporn of http://www.supornclinic.com/ has a very interesting technique to getting very good results.  It's a bit cheaper than the US.  I really can't manage 21000 USD + flight + Hotel + care.  I can't.  I just can't.  Suporn is around 15 with everything included..Minus travel.  But, that I feel I can swing plus the results, look for yourself.  I'm eager to get working on it.  I'm hoping I can convince my sister to loan me 5000.  We'll see if she will.  I'm returning to work after this is done.  I don't want to start work and then leave after less than a year and be out for 3 months + only to look for another job when I'm pretty unemployable as is.  However, I will do whatever I need.  It needs to be done.  My discomfort and issues over this are hampering my sex life, my relationships, and even the pants I wear.  It has to change.

So things have been pretty quiet lately, it looks like. Good news on my end, I have a full time job, I'm going on a date tonight, my parents are still splitting up but keeping me out of it, so I only talk to them about things every few days. For now, things seem to be stable.

And this girl I'm going out with tonight identifies as gender fluid but doesn't really talk about it to a whole lot of people, as she's quite shy about sharing anything.

I'm really happy for you Lane.  You're doing really well and it's really good for you!  Stability is rare.  Maybe you and she will really connect, tell me how it went. :)

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 I don't want to start work and then leave after less than a year and be out for 3 months + only to look for another job when I'm pretty unemployable as is. 

Are you somewhat unemployable due to being a possible HR nightmare, lacking some skills, or for some other reason?

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Harsh.

I couldnt think of a better way to word it. Also, unless something has changed recently I dont think my statement is incorrect. I suppose probably not literally though I am not fully certain of what HR has dreams about.

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So... hi, guys

i haven't updated y'all on stuff for a while, i think

first of all, though: Bun, I'm glad you're doing well. I wish I could gather up the courage to talk with you more often, hehe... You're kind of my role model.

On to my stuff.

Last month i've done several things: I took a picture of myself and showed it to my friends because i felt like i looked acceptable, I actually had a voice call (several, several hours each) with my boyfriend, and in general I feel i'm moving forward quick. I got a really cute dress a couple days ago, and I put it on along with the makeup and things today, and I felt cute! For the first time I felt like I could look cute if i tried just a little bit harder. I need to get my brows trimmed, but yeah!

Have a picture, in fact. http://i.imgur.com/3lKaQhF.jpg 

I'm doing medical exams in order to get put on HRT, and I'm expecting that to start in two months or so, so exciting!! 

I'm going to come out to my sister and post on my "real life" facebook about it today, so wish me luck~~

 

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